There’s nothing I’d love more to do than inspire young people to be great. I’d love to be able to reach out to and speak to young people from all walks of life. Each individual has sooooo much potential, sooooo so much! But more than anything in the world I’d love to be able to reach and awaken the realization in young women that is, they can be anything they want to be. Shouldn’t there be a class about this subject at schools? hhmm
If I were a motivational speaker, my core focus would on be reaching out to young women, empowering them with skills, empowering them with knowledge and empowering them with the most important seed of all, which is self-love. I’d love nothing more than to witness a turnaround in the way young women see themselves.
I might be wrong, but I think self-love, self-confidence and the ability to be happy with being just you is the most important thing. I’ve seen too many girls, too many women unhappy or unsatisfied with who they are. There is this need by women to be acknowledged by the people around them. There is this desire to get approval from people who don’t even matter. I wish that we could realize this earlier on in life, realize that actually people’s views of us must not ever be a measure of who we are.
Now on the subject of being happy with being just happy with yourself, I’d like to touch on the subject of being happy by yourself. I wish more ladies knew that it’s okay to be alone, it’s okay to be single, it really is ladies. Yes being in a relationship at the right time with the right person is amazing!! Totally out of this world, but it should not be all you aspire to. I’ve seen way too many ladies (good, quality ladies) try so hard to be loved, try so hard to be in relationships, just because nje. So, just because all your friends are in seemingly fairy tale like relationships, it doesn’t mean you should throw yourself easily onto anything that looks like it might be love. Seriously, it’s okay to love yourself 1st, find yourself, figure out what you want and love will find you (if that’s what you’re looking for of course).
Now back to my point…The only thing you should focus on is bettering yourself for you, for the right reasons, because YOU want to.
beautifulstorm 
May 6, 2016 at 1:01 pm
Oh honey, all of this is truth.
May 9, 2016 at 8:47 am
🙂 thanks for stopping by
February 10, 2018 at 3:28 pm
I’m so happy, lucky and blessed to be the first girl out of all the girls to be not only empowered and inspired but loved and Be supported in every way and everything by YOU! Thank you so much you’re a lot in my life. I’m super grateful sista. ❤️❤️❤️
February 12, 2018 at 9:54 am
aysukamaan! lol! thank you, that means a lot! i want alll of us to succeed ❤
May 14, 2018 at 9:18 am
Self love is important. Very. I realised this years later I grew from being a young girl to a teenager. We love people so much coz for some reason we think we can realise or Feel what love is through them and it’s not the case. I’m glad I woke up from that nightmare, sadly some are still a part of it and it hurts but I’ve come to learn that life has a way of teaching each and every one of us a lesson. Why am I only seeing your stuff now ? Lol .I haven’t known you for long though I’ll forgive myself . Great writing ❤🌻
May 15, 2018 at 9:53 am
lol! thank you for reading! I don’t write as often anymore though…actually I haven’t written in ages!
Self realization is such a good place to be in. It’s so good good to be in a space where you are so comfortable with yourself, where are not affected by what the world tells you are. you just do you!